Everyone wants to feel and be appreciated. You should experience both (especially the latter) because you’re worth it. Life becomes fast paced, complicated, and many of us do not take a minute to stop, look around, and really appreciate one another (especially the ones that are closest to us). Have you been commented on your hair lately? Have you paid compliment to your partner’s charm lately?
The following are a few enchanting lines any lady would like to hear (as long as they are stated sincerely). They are followed with some suggestions on facilitating their verbalization a bit. We hope it helps!
“How was your day?”
We like to hear this because it insinuates concern and interest on our partner’s part. This provides an opportunity to chat and to return the inquiry.
Setting up a time to talk on a daily basis can be an enriching experience for the both of you. It could be at a local coffee house, during a stroll in the neighborhood, or at the dinner table. This provides a chance for the both of you to immediately know what is going on in one another’s lives and will eliminate the possibility of things being taken personally if something is not so delightful at work, with friends, with the kids, etc.
“Have I told you how beautiful you are lately?”
Gosh! That statement can definitely get a girl blushing. . . We all want to feel attractive and aesthetically pleasing to gaze upon. We want our leading partners to let us know that we are their leading ladies.
Complimenting one another on your physical attributes initiates a chance to be flirtatious and to relay the sentiment that the flame is still there. Switching up your look will definitely work to your advantage. Wigs grant women excellent moments to liven up their look. Choosing a different style, color, or just adding a little extra something with an extension will get you noticed in a big way.
“What do you think about (fill in the blank)?”
We want to know that we are valued for what are insights may be on any topic. It lets us know that our partners are thinking of us before they act.
Reading papers, magazines, and tabloids or watching the news and sitcoms together can create a forum for discussing situations together. It may sound silly to compare your life to Jessica Simpson’s life, but a lot of what happens to others can be generalized to what can happen to anyone. Whether the medium be real or fictitious, it will create a place to discuss ideas and feelings on multiple topics.
“I love it when you look at me that way. ”
This comment is perennially sweet to say and more so to hear. It makes us feel that we are not only appreciated but appreciated for the little things.
All of us are individuals and it makes us feel unique when the little things we do are noticed and attractive to others. Compliment your partner on the small things that you find noticeably desirable about them. Perhaps make a list and put it somewhere they will notice or make the list together on a weekly or monthly basis.
“Did I tell you how much I appreciated it when you (fill in the blank)?”
To be appreciated is such bliss. It makes us feel that not only what we did was noticed, but was relished in retrospect as well.
Create a system that is based on subjectively giving ‘love points’ in relation to acts that each of you commits. Tally up the points on a weekly or monthly basis with the winner being awarded a small prize of their choice. The object is not to win, but to relay to one another the things that each of you appreciates in the other.
“I’ve been thinking about and waiting to kiss you all day. ”
We all want to feel desired. This expresses to us that the physical intrigue is a part of the relationship.
Aside from sexual relations, intimacy is about making a connection. Think about engaging in some activities relating to sensuality. You can give one another a massage, take a bubble bath together, feed each other, etc. The more acts you both partake in involving one another other than ‘the act’ will bring you closer together and will make you more attracted to each other.
“You can always make me smile. ”
It is wonderful to know that we light up someone’s life. It makes us feel delighted that we have such a positive affect on a special someone.
Life can be very hectic and stressful (no matter who you are). During troubling times, let your partner know how you feel about them. They will especially be happy to hear that you are thinking of them when you are not having such a great day. This tells them that you don’t lose sight of what really matters.
“You’re my best friend. ”
We would all like to be deeply confided in and be someone’s companion on many levels. This confirms that we are multiple things to the other person and a best friend is the greatest thing you could be to someone.
To have a special relationship you have to be special to that person. There is no recipe to achieve this feat, but to be open and accepting in order to see if there is that special chemistry. Being best friends in a romantic relationship is something to be treasured. It is an ongoing task and requires a great deal of give and take.